If you’re looking to change or add to your wardrobe and want to incorporate some basic feminine pieces, this post is for you.
Importantly, these pieces won’t go out of style because they’ve already stood the test of time. Focusing on timeless elements, as least to some degree, helps to save money and encourages us to acquire lasting quality.
Many women have numerous pairs of dress shoes, earrings, blouses, or yoga pants, and often don’t wear most of them very often or want to wear them less often. In another post we’ll talk about how to let mediocre items go, but for now, take your favorites, those you constantly wear, and note what it is you like about them. From here you’ll get a realistic place from which to start when thinking of other items you want to purchase.
For the following, you’ll want to edit in your own style and color choices. Here are feminine wardrobe basics that won’t go out of style:
- button-up shirts in billowy fabrics or fitted but not tight crisp cotton
- nautical striped tops with crew or boat necks
- t-shirt style tops, long or short-sleeved, that are not see-through
- trousers with pleats (more points if you add a flexible belt)
- ankle length pants
- cotton, silk, rayon, modal for tops
- wool, cashmere, knitted cotton for sweaters/cardigans
- cotton, wool, jean material for pants
- leather or suede shoes
- half-inch or one-inch heeled shoes with almond shaped toes
- neutral colors plus one to three accent colors that flatter you
- skirts of all lengths and styles except those that are too short
- opaque solid tights and knit stockings in neutral colors
- dresses of all kinds except those that are too short, too tight, or those that restrict your movement
- necklaces, earrings, bracelets, and rings that don’t get in your way or impede your daily activities
Consider avoiding:
- heavy fancy embellishments for everyday wear unless you can be consistent and it compliments your lifestyle
- colors that don’t complement you (otherwise wear them below your chest, away from your face)
- overly tight clothes (if you must wear yoga pants, wear a long top or tunic for sufficient modesty)
- overly loose/baggy clothing unless it truly suits you (it may in the case of some women)
- overly trendy silhouettes that will soon go out of style
- high-heels unless you can walk gracefully and without pain
- slogans or symbols (with exception of your religious symbols or display of patriotism to the country in which you reside)
- anything uncomfortable, ill-fitting, dirty, wrinkled, or overly casual or dressy for your daily lifestyle
- anything highly impractical or immodest as this sends the wrong messages about you and your ability to make wise decisions
In this author’s opinion, feminine basics are not merely a pink dress or skirt. You may not want to wear something like this when raising a puppy or looking after a toddler or going out in the cold. You have the wisdom and sense to choose practical clothing for your particular daily activities. You can make simple and even rugged clothes like jeans and a leather jacket adequately feminine by avoiding tacky or masculine designs, crude cuts, unappealing color combinations, and improper fit.
Feminine clothing is practical, comfortable, aesthetically appealing, sufficiently modest, and thoughtful towards the woman wearing it and her activities that day.
Consider some of the following to add some extra feminine touches once you’ve put on a basic outfit:
- a scarf draped around your neck or tied in your hair
- a hair accessory like a barrette or headband
- a broche
- a nice belt
- shoes with a small feminine embellishment like a bow or tassel
- polished nails
- a spray of perfume or some scent
Do remember that more than anything, your behavior speaks for you. Get dressed in a way that will represent you well and then let your actions do the rest of the talking. Feminine aspects in your dress will help encourage you to act that way, but if you must go out and do something like shovel manure, rest assured, you can wear boots, jeans, and a coat, and with the attitude of a lady, you’ll still look every bit as one.